{"id":5596,"date":"2019-09-06T13:34:20","date_gmt":"2019-09-06T18:34:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/discipleship\/?p=5596"},"modified":"2019-09-06T13:34:20","modified_gmt":"2019-09-06T18:34:20","slug":"the-joy-of-lament","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/discipleship\/2019\/09\/06\/the-joy-of-lament\/","title":{"rendered":"The Joy of Lament"},"content":{"rendered":"
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\u201cAll Alone! Whether you like it or not, alone will be something you'll be quite a lot.\u201d[1]<\/sup>\u00a0 While unconventional, Dr. Seuss may be one of my favorite theologians.\u00a0 In his own characteristic lightheartedness, he brings the gentle reminders of social need.\u00a0 More importantly, he brings attention that there is a place for everyone to belong, regardless of our insecurities.<\/p>\n

An interesting shift is unfolding in our present generation through the censored life we create in the pictures of Facebook and Instagram.\u00a0 The beautiful family photos of perfectly placed hands around the pregnancy bump and priceless medals and certificates that adorn our children at the end of the school year are important memories we share with those we love. Missing are the pictures of the tears of agony when infertility is the story or the tantrums we endured as our children struggled to learn new math concepts.\u00a0 Those pictures are considered unpostable.\u00a0 We\u2019d much rather post the mountain view sunrise.\u00a0 We don\u2019t post the pictures of the pain we endured, and the grit it took to experience the triumph.<\/p>\n

I am just as guilty of \u00a0overcoming the fits of rage to get my young children dressed and out the door for church while smiling big as we enter the doors to hug my friends and tell them, \u201cAll is well.\u201d\u00a0 Yet, in this censorship, we undercut the very core of who we are called to be as a community of faith.\u00a0 Sharing the victories is only half of the story.\u00a0 When we fail to share our defeat, misgivings, and emotional wounds, we isolate those who are searching for hope.\u00a0 When only half the story is told, we unwittingly broadcast that those in the midst of struggle and defeat have no place here.\u00a0 This church is only for those who have enough faith to be victorious.\u00a0 Those whose burdens are the heaviest, walk away discouraged because they don\u2019t fit the picture of perfection.\u00a0 Moreover, we isolate ourselves because when the tears come\u2014and they will\u2014we dare not reach out and shatter the image we\u2019ve created.\u00a0 The loneliest game of all is the game we play against ourselves.<\/p>\n

This misconception of social expectation has even infiltrated our prayers to a point that we\u2019ve become misguided.\u00a0 Perhaps the point is not to pray the pain away, but to pray for the endurance to walk through it knowing our character is shaped through process and our testimony is a beacon of hope for someone else\u2019s testimony unfolding.<\/p>\n

Lament<\/strong><\/p>\n

The biblical paradigm does not share the censorship our church culture has created.\u00a0 In fact, the examples within the biblical texts are quite the opposite.\u00a0 Even for the greatest of leaders, attention is drawn to their shortcomings and imperfections.\u00a0 Likewise, the Psalms present an entire collection of prayers in the form of lament.\u00a0 They are used to express the rawness of human emotion in the midst of the struggles that produced them.\u00a0 While Western culture typically teaches that sorrow, grief, and intense anger have no place in public, the lament psalms teach something contrary to this perspective. In contrast, Israel uses the lament psalms as a means to create memories of the desperate cry for God to move on their behalf.\u00a0 Within the cultural background of Psalms, modern readers must maintain the parameter that these prayers were regularly set to music with the intention of the full community sharing in the prayer and thus sharing the experience.<\/p>\n

Prayer is often a direct response to an experience, either good or bad.\u00a0 Through the lament psalms, we learn a means of prayer that expresses pain to God while affirming trust in His sovereignty.\u00a0 These laments give structure and a means for voicing grief in such a way that still recognizes hope in God and moves the worshiper from hurt to joy.\u00a0 They allow the worshiper to give an honest reflection of pain.\u00a0 Within the book of Psalms, we find the laments as a \u201cvalid biblical response to God in prayer from the depths of our humanity.\u201d[2]<\/sup>\u00a0 In this type of prayer, the emotional crisis is articulated with petition for God to intervene while also affirming trust in God\u2019s sovereignty, even if no immediate action occurs.<\/p>\n

For Israel, the Psalms are used within the context of worship.\u00a0 There are prayers of desperation, hope, and praise that were preserved within the community of faith to guide them in worship.\u00a0 For modern believers, these prayers remind us of the importance of prayer and offer examples of portraying our human emotions to God. While there are occasional examples of prayers used individually, these prayers were largely poetic expressions used by the entire community within the Temple for public worship.<\/p>\n

Conclusion<\/strong><\/p>\n

The language of Psalms calls on readers to experience the emotions of others.\u00a0 When I reflect on the use of Psalms and how it impacts the modern Church, I am reminded of Paul\u2019s words in Romans: \u201cRejoice with those who rejoice and mourn with those who mourn.\u201d[3]<\/sup>\u00a0 The ability to lament and grieve is such an imperative aspect of our journey.\u00a0 As Pentecostals, we celebrate victory and are quick to celebrate God\u2019s provision.\u00a0 In my experience, we are not as vocal in expressing the pain of waiting.\u00a0 We do not readily express our anger or confusion within the context of the worshiping community.\u00a0 Yet, in the very midst of crisis and rawness, is the ability for the Church to rally and allow the sufferer to find a place of hope.\u00a0 Moreover, in the context of expression, others have the ability to share in the experience alongside their fellow brother\/sister.<\/p>\n

Yet, the greatest joy of the lament is the confidence that it restores.\u00a0 Though I may not see God\u2019s hand in my present, I am assured of my hope that He will move.\u00a0 This is a vital prayer for our modern communities of faith.\u00a0 Not only does it bring confidence for the believer, but by vocalizing the full spectrum of our story and entire range of emotions that we experience throughout our struggles and faith, it brings hope.\u00a0 Those silently experiencing the same wounds have an opportunity to see God hasn\u2019t left them. \u00a0He\u2019s brought them into a community that will mourn with them, and (when the time comes) celebrate the victory of overcoming.\u00a0 The language of faith is experience.\u00a0 Within the Psalms, the \u201chuman words to God become the revealing Word of God.\u201d[4]<\/sup><\/p>\n

**Footnotes:**<\/p>\n

[1]<\/sup> Dr. Seuss. Oh the Places You\u2019ll Go.<\/em><\/p>\n

[2]<\/sup> Dennis Bratcher. \u201cPatterns for Life: Structure, Genre, and Theology in Psalms,\u201d The Voice<\/em>. 2018. http:\/\/www.crivoice.org\/psalmgenre.html<\/a>.<\/p>\n

[3]<\/sup> Romans 12:15.<\/p>\n

[4]<\/sup> Gerald Wilson. \u201cThe Shape of the Book of Psalms.\u201d Interpretation<\/em>. 46 (1992): 129-142.<\/p>\n

Author Bio:<\/p>\n

Dr. Adrian Hinkle currently serves as the Vice President of Academic Affairs at Southwestern Christian University. Dr. Hinkle arrived at SCU in 2004 where she served as the first female to teach Theology at an IPHC higher education institution. Before joining Southwestern, Dr. Hinkle served the IPHC through her work as an assistant at the Global Ministry Center and was involved as an assistant youth pastor in the Heartland Conference. Since joining SCU, Dr. Hinkle has been involved in several leadership roles including Department Chair for the Christian Studies Department (2008-2014), Academic Dean for the School of Professional Studies (2011-2017), and Dean of the Graduate Studies program (2014-2016). Dr. Hinkle also serves as a reviewer with the Higher Learning Commission and is an active member of the Society for Pentecostal Studies.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n

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An alumna of SCU with a BS in Biblical Studies, Dr. Hinkle went on to earn a Master of Arts in Theology from Southern Nazarene University. 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