{"id":947,"date":"2016-09-08T14:00:27","date_gmt":"2016-09-08T14:00:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/?p=947"},"modified":"2016-09-01T20:54:40","modified_gmt":"2016-09-01T20:54:40","slug":"loving-others","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/2016\/09\/08\/loving-others\/","title":{"rendered":"Loving Others"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>How do I Radiate Holiness and Christ\u2019s Love to the Community and Hurting World?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s my simple answer: just do it. Love people right where they are; helping at their point of need. Here\u2019s what it often looks like in our world:<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/Ryland-Small.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-949\" src=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/Ryland-Small.jpg\" alt=\"Ryland Small\" width=\"450\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/Ryland-Small.jpg 1001w, https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/Ryland-Small-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/Ryland-Small-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/Ryland-Small-200x133.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 450px) 100vw, 450px\" \/><\/a>A single mother with a special needs son entered the room where we were holding an outreach event. The first hurdle was just to get her son there. She looked exhausted yet relieved her son was in a safe place that cared and catered to his needs. Stephanie welcomed her and introduced her to a group of parents huddled around a table drinking coffee and watching their children interact with others.\u00a0 The mother looked over her shoulder to see me engaging her son in a game, then slumped down into a chair grateful for a cup of tea and conversation with people who could fully relate.<\/p>\n<p>I easily struck up a conversation with a father in the same meeting, because he faces the same issues I do. He was looking for that niche, that one thing that might bring his son to a place where he connects the dots, finds something to feel proud about, some achievement, some skill. It\u2019s the same thing every father wants for his son or daughter no matter their abilities.<\/p>\n<p>At the table, the conversation turned to the various medical issues that each of their children had dealt with for years, if not their whole life.\u00a0 Each medical crisis overcome and achievement recounted, no matter how small, was celebrated like a birthday.\u00a0They were all on the same page. So for two hours they turned off the \u201chigh alert\u201d and relaxed in the company of others able to personally sympathize and empathize. Think any of these parents were open to hearing our story of Good News?\u00a0 Of course.\u00a0 All of them!<\/p>\n<p>It is simple, yet profound. We are meeting an enormous need that otherwise is not being met. This is what it looks like to love people.<a href=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/John-Small.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright wp-image-950\" src=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/John-Small.jpg\" alt=\"John Small\" width=\"400\" height=\"267\" srcset=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/John-Small.jpg 1001w, https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/John-Small-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/John-Small-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/John-Small-200x133.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>The practice of loving people through serving them is vital. This is especially true when reaching those who are marginalized, looked down on, and hurt. We must show the love of Christ through authentic, sincere actions. He did. What we say carries little weight unless we back it up with what we do.<\/p>\n<p>The ultimate need is salvation. The ultimate reality is the revelation of Jesus Christ. However, there is a path that must patiently and lovingly be navigated to reach the destination. This path is through their felt need; the need that is most pressing to a person. It could be food, shelter, acceptance, or a listening ear. We must have a deep level of commitment to these hurting souls that God has given to us.\u00a0 We must identify with them fully.\u00a0 We must rejoice over the victories and grieve over the losses. It is imperative that we move beyond just doing. Let people experience what we do, but also know who we are and why we do these things.\u00a0 It is Christ inside manifesting God\u2019s love through us.<\/p>\n<p>Salvation is what we all need; though many cannot see a Savior or recognize his absence because the wall of despair, loneliness, hunger, fear, pride or pain <a href=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/Todd-Small.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-951\" src=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/Todd-Small.jpg\" alt=\"Todd Small\" width=\"350\" height=\"189\" \/><\/a>darkens their vision. If we can reflect Christ over a cup of tea, or an understanding ear, those standing in the shadows can receive Him. \u00a0They can learn to hear his voice. \u00a0They can learn to reflect Him as well.<\/p>\n<p>Radiating holiness and Christ\u2019s love to the community and hurting world can only be truly achieved through sincerely and actively loving people.<\/p>\n<p><strong>By Todd Presley<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/PresleyTodd0814-Small.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-948\" src=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/PresleyTodd0814-Small.jpg\" alt=\"PresleyTodd0814 Small\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" srcset=\"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/PresleyTodd0814-Small.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/PresleyTodd0814-Small-300x168.jpg 300w, https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/PresleyTodd0814-Small-768x431.jpg 768w, https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/PresleyTodd0814-Small-200x112.jpg 200w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 500px) 100vw, 500px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Todd and Stephanie Presley serve as IPHC missionaries to Wales. As a part of their ministry, they have started Parents2Parents, a support group for families with special-needs children and teens.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"excerpt","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":951,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_genesis_hide_title":false,"_genesis_hide_breadcrumbs":false,"_genesis_hide_singular_image":false,"_genesis_hide_footer_widgets":false,"_genesis_custom_body_class":"","_genesis_custom_post_class":"","_genesis_layout":"","episode_type":"","audio_file":"","cover_image":"","cover_image_id":"","duration":"","filesize":"","date_recorded":"","explicit":"","block":"","filesize_raw":"","jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1,284],"tags":[180,58,323,347,322],"class_list":{"0":"post-947","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-general","8":"category-phpp","9":"tag-180","10":"tag-iphc","11":"tag-people-of-promise","12":"tag-phpp","13":"tag-place-of-hope","14":"entry"},"title_es":"","content_es":"","author_name":"","jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/5\/2016\/08\/Todd-Small-e1470322479925.jpg","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/pb62Bx-fh","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/947","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=947"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/947\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/951"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=947"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=947"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/iphc.org\/gso\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=947"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}